Friends are Pregnant But Not Me

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It is stressful enough to see most of my friends who get married after my own marriage, are now pregnant. Some of them gave birth recently. Some of them just found out their pregnancy. Others are awaiting the arrival of their baby.

How can it be NOT stressful for me who are married for more than two years and still no sign of pregnancy?

While friends are being supportive, they just cannot hide their happiness. Of course I am happy for them. After all, they are my friends. How can I not be happy for them?

Almost every day, there are news on baby at the dumpster or baby in the toilet or baby by the river - all dead. Only a handful of babies are alive when the public spotted them.

Why is this happening?

If you are seeing this sign around, you know there is something wrong with our society :

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Apparently those who have/had premarital sex are easy to get pregnant - usually at first "shot".

But why dump the baby at the dumpster? The toilet? By the river? Are you even human? You are treating your baby like rubbish, when you are the one who have to go through the pregnancy and the birth. Even animals love their offspring. We have adoption centres, so get rid of your shame and put your baby in the right place, if you do not want to see your baby again!

Then again, you are not supposed to be shameful, since you are not shameful of having unprotected sex.

So here's my message for those who are pregnant and thinking about killing the baby / leaving the baby at the dumpster, toilet, e.t.c. and those who have murdered your own flesh and blood -

Hey, whoever you are who throw your baby away like rubbish,


Don't you feel bad about yourself for throwing your baby away? You are a murderer by leaving your baby at the dumpster, toilet, river and so on. Even if you do not want to keep the baby, you can give your baby away for adoption. At least your baby will live. There are many people who want to have a baby, cannot get a baby! At least you won't be a murderer by sending your baby to adoption centres. Do not treat your baby like rubbish. Have a little sympathy for the little one. 


Concerned future mother.

I hope to have a baby, might not be now, but some day...

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